1) Find a place to hold your meet-up. It can be a bakery, but also a bar where "outside food" can be brought in.
2) Schedule a gathering. Contact the bakery/bar/venue.
3) Tell your friends. Spread the word.
4) Have the meetup.
5) Take pictures and send a recap to me at [address removed].
6) I will post on the Cupcakes Take The Cake blog with your pics and link.
Possible Ideas for a Meetup for February/March
Champagne and cupcakes, St Patrick's Day (Guinness and chocolate cupcakes), or maybe a Pisces Birthday Cupcake party.